12 costly mistakes ladies make in relationships

12 costly mistakes ladies make in relationships

These issues am going to discuss here today are the main mistakes ladies do make in relationship by getting things wrong, luckily if you seen or read the book titled 40 types of women you will have some understanding about the case study in this editions of mistakes women made in relationships.

1.       Taking friendship for love

2.       Random Sex

3.       Abortion

4.       Dating a guy with many girlfriends

5.       Taking guys for granted

6.       Laziness

7.       Uncultured type

8.       Indecency

9.       Free giver

10.   Age

11.   Pregnancy

12.   Ex

The above are the most common mistakes ladies make in relationship; now lets talk about the above listed points

1.       Taking friendship for love:- some ladies do have the misconception about what love really stands for, some do believe that anyone who is caring or who cares for them are their boyfriend to be not know the implications there in.example because mr A and mrs B are best of friends since childhood she might think the two of them are compatible due to the years they’ve spent togrtther.

2.       Random sex:- a guy that really wants to get married or settle down with you in future will never turn you to a sex machine and moreso will not try different sex parttern or style with you rather he will also abstain from such . note:- mind you satisfying your boyfriend with sex as not guaranty that you both will be join in holy matrimony but youre telling him that youre a just a peck and go.

3.       Abortion:- the greatest mistake you will ever do as a lady is to agree to have an abortion in order words youre telling him youre a dust bin that takes all kind of gabbage, which is at the expences of your own future, any guy that did abourtion for a lady is or has never of going settle down with such a lose lady athough he might not be able to concive again in life.

4.       Double dating:- some times ladies do take double dating or dating someone they knew to be a chronich womenizer in the belif that they will change the person, those that are able to change such a guy are 10% out of 100 because to change someone who is addicted to a particular thing is not a days job. Mind you I belief such relationship is not love but lust, infatuation, selfishness.

5.       Taking guys for granted:- must girls belief in their self to the extent of taking things to themselves than it although to be. Such ladies belives they don’t or cannot make mistskes I call such girls the ALL IN ALL where they alt to give respect to their man they wont even in the publich due to over confidence, some will even be boost enough to tell their boyfriends or man that I KNOW YOU CANT BREAK UP WITH ME (OR) YOU DARE NOT BREAK UP. Guys hate this kind of talk cos the girl seems to be confident  and with that possing a treat on the guy which do fasting break ups

6.        Laziness:- these one of the big or great problem facing the girls of now adays, some find it hard to do househood chores which is a very bad habbit some girls even prefer the boyfriend to become a catrer for her and house help while shes still in bed the food alt to be ready, the house must be tidy etc.

No man is willing to be a slave under a woman a scholar said ‘’wife material are the ones that will not be told what to do before they do them’’

7.       Uncultured type:- these arew the type of women that don’t see anything wrong in a generally know habit to be wrong, it might be due to their level of exposure, education, understanding etc. for example some ladies don’t know how to sit, dress, eat, behave, greet even talk. And instead of learning how to correct themselves in such aspects what they do is to condemn  others.

8.       Indecency:- some ladies believe they can get any guy they want with the way they dress lossly or talk unruly, these types dress to impress this makes them to dress in a way they can essaily seduce a guy in question not minding the fact that the way you dress is the same way you will be addressed  and after achieving their main objectives u see the other side of them.

9.       The free givers:- these are the type of girls that have sex with random guys forgetting the fact that what you do today will be a topic tomorrow, such girls might do it freely without any charges but some are know because of the way they beg guys for things e.g money , food, shopping, mobile ,airtime, jeweries etc all this demands do come with a price and in most cases it leads to a random sex partner which increases the STD in our society.

10.   Age:- these is another thing ladies do in relationship that is a very big mistake, once they know they are older than youre the next thing you will see is a change in actitudes feel like GOD not minding the fact that according to creation a man is the head no matter how small he may be.

11.   Pregnancy:- some belifs a man can be tied down with these little word ‘’ baby have not seen my period ‘’ that will only  come after break up just to get him back not knowing some guys have gone from bad to worse instead they will tell the lady ‘’ na u get belle not me so find something to do to it and stop bordering me’’ even thought what she said is nothing but the truth shes going to face the concicions alone.  

12.   Ex :- after getting a new boyfriend who they claim to love them all of a sudden they will become something else by talking much about their ex in other to get the guy jealous thinking that will make him stay not remembering the fact that he had a ex too before you.